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Cultural Impact
Interacting with Ladakhis

It
is inevitable that you'll leave some impression of your culture by visiting
Ladakh; instead of just consuming the country like another product, try to give
something back. Tourists are in a powerful position to present a more balanced
picture of life in the West and you are the ones who should actively speak out
when you see something being done for the benefit of tourists which is obviously
harmful or degrading to the local environment or culture. However, unless you
make an effort to communicate, all that the Ladakhis will see is yet another
rich tourist on holiday - probably an inaccurate picture of someone not particularly
well off by Western standards, who has worked extremely hard to pay for a trip
out to Ladakh and who cares for and admires the country and its people. You
will get the most out of your visit if you travel in small groups, allow lots
of time to learn and try to be constantly aware. Although many Ladakhis speak
good English, do try to learn a few words of Ladakhi as this will be greatly
appreciated and will underline the importance of their language. When telling
somebody about your home country talk about the problems as well as the good
things. The Ladakhis get a rose-tinted image of the West through the media so
it is important to put across a balanced view of what life is really like in
a 'developed' country. Most Ladakhis have no idea about the environmental and
social costs of living in the West, and the extent of poverty, homelessness,
alienation and mental illness. Things that Ladakhis take for granted, Westerners
will actively seek out and pay more for: such as local, organic food and methods
of natural health care. Unlike Ladakhis, few Westerners are privileged enough
to own their own land and even fewer produce their own food; we don't even know
how to. If you are asked how much you earn, put it in context by explaining
that almost half of your income goes on paying for somewhere to live, say how
much a week's supply of groceries will cost or how much it would cost to travel
a short distance on a local bus.
Interaction with the Ladakhis should be a two-way process. There is much they
can teach the West about community, local self-reliance and ways of living simpler,
less intrusive and more compassionate lives. A holiday is the perfect excuse
for learning.
Encourage local pride - Express an interest in all things
Ladakhi and explain why you've come all this way and spent all that money to
come to their country. Try to eat local food, adapt to local practices and use
local services so that you can experience the culture at fIrst hand. Make a
point of letting the people know what you like about it: if you have chosen
your guesthouse because it has a Ladakhi toilet or solar-heated water, tell
the owners.
Dress and behave modestly - Too many trekkers unwittingly insult
the Ladakhis by the way they are dressed, although complaints are never heard
because they are too polite. It's very easy to respect local customs by not
revealing

your
legs, shoulders, stomachs or backs. Men should always wear a shirt and trousers;
shorts are not appreciated. Women should wear loose trousers or skirts below
the knee and tops that cover their shoulders, stomach and back. Bright colours
and body-revealing lycra are offensive to Ladakhis. If you see someone dressed
inappropriately, please bring it to their attention. Never bathe in the nude;
men should wear shorts and women should be more discreet and always wear at
least shorts and t-shirt.
Respect local etiquette - Ladakhis have different ways of doing
things and by following these simple guidelines you will avoid causing offence.
The most useful word to learn is Julay which can be used at any time of the
day to greet people, say goodbye or to thank someone. As you trek through villages
you will be greeted by everyone in this manner and it is polite to do likewise.
When offered something it is polite to give a couple of insincere refusals before
accepting. Use both hands to receive things. If you really don't want something
you may have to say 'no' two or three times. If you are pointing at something
use your whole hand rather than just your fInger. The feet are considered unclean,
so don't point them at people or step over anything such as people, food, tables
or religious articles. Similarly, if you have your legs outstretched Ladakhis
will be loath to step over them, so move them out of the way or, preferably,
keep them folded under you if you're seated on the floor. Religious objects,
including anything that contains pictures of religious objects (postcards or
books), should be kept high off the floor. In most rooms there is a subtle seating
arrangement with the place of honour usually furthest from the door and close
to the stove. You may be encouraged to sit at or near the seat of honour but
it is polite to sit a little further down. When in public do not display your
affection for others by holding hands, hugging or kissing. This can easily offend
or embarrass Ladakhis. Don't share utensils when eating or drinking or dip your
used ones into the serving dish. If sharing a water bottle, learn how to drink
without your lips touching it.
Respect religious customs - When visiting monasteries it is particularly
important that you wear appropriate clothes, take off your shoes or boots before
entering the temple, don't smoke, don't touch any religious objects and always
remember to give a small donation. The larger monasteries now charge an entrance
fee to make sure you don't forget. If you want to photograph the frescoes inside
monasteries, bring a tripod or some fast film; don't use a flash as this can
damage the paintwork. Religious festivals are sacred occasions and you will
upset many local people if you wander around taking photographs while the dances
are going on. Recently, masked dances have been performed outside monasteries
as a tourist attraction, especially during the Ladakh Festival. This is considered
deeply sacrilegious and you should express your disapproval by not supporting
such an exploitation of religion and by complaining to the relevant organisers.
Always walk to the left of Buddhist monuments (chortens, mani walls, prayer
wheels) by keeping them on your right. Prayer wheels should be turned in a clockwise
direction. Don't sit or leave your pack on mani walls or chortens and never
move mani stones.
Respect people's privacy - Ladakhis get just as annoyed by people
peering into their lives as you do. Always put

yourself
in their position, especially before taking someone's photograph. It is a common
courtesy to ask for permission before taking a shot and if they don't want their
photo taken please respect this. Don't pay people for posing for you. It is
much better to take down their address and send them a copy instead. Pony-men,
and others that you spend some time with, may also ask you to send them copies
of the photos you've taken of them. It is a cardinal sin not to follow this
obligation through; it costs you very little and means a great deal to those
at the receiving end.
Be modest with your wealth - However poor you think you are at
home, by Ladakhi standards you are very wealthy. Don't flaunt this wealth by
showing off your hi-tech equipment. Leaving it lying around unattended is further
proof that you could easily afford to replace it.
Discourage begging - Begging in Ladakh started as a children's
game to see if they could get a 'bon-bon' or 'school pen' from the always obliging
tourists. However, it has developed into a far more serious problem by fostering
an attitude of dependency among the young. Don't give anything to people who
ask for it, after all, giving sweets to children in a country which has few
dentists is not an act of charity; if you want to give money it's best to ask
the advice of one of the excellent NGOs working in Ladakh (see p132) as to whom
it should be given.
Don't play doctor - While trekking you may occasionally be asked
by locals for medicines or to treat wounds. Unless it is simply a case of cleaning
a cut and applying a plaster you should encourage them to go to the nearest
health post. There is usually one in larger villages. If you try to treat something
more complicated and your efforts do not work, you may begin to undermine the
people's faith in Western medicine. This will encourage them to patronise the
local shaman rather than the health post.
Keep your sense of humour - It is considered the height of bad
manners to lose your temper, and something you will almost never see a Ladakhi
do. Although things can sometimes be very difficult, always try to maintain
some perspective on the situation. You are not at home but in a land where things
are done differently and where concepts of time are simply different from your
own. See the funny side of your predicament; there will always be one.